Rule number 2: Total control

I have failed again and again in keeping my temper. As a result, sometimes actions which are not appropriate or words that do not suit the place and time pop out. Sometimes temper does not only mean anger, but also happiness, excitement and impatience.

To change is the best way. To start to change is the action that I must carry out. To be consistent is the attitude I must have to ensure my target is reached.

I have read and heard from many sources that the real control is not to force yourself to bear with unhappiness, but is not to feel unhappy at all however bad the condition may be. The real control is not only controlling yourself from doing things or saying words which will bring bad effects to the people around you when you are too happy, but not to reach the state of over-happy at all. The real control is not to refrain yourself from showing that you are impatient, but not to feel impatient at all.

The true control must be to able to wipe any feeling of giving up although you have failed in something and feel a bit down or disappointed. It must also enable you to pursue your target steadily, not with a heart burning too hot which may dominate your head, but also not with a heart so cold that it can't generate any energy at all. It gives you the ability to love, but at the same time does not cause you to have the wish to take for yourself.

To work on myself is the first step to be liked by others, to smile happily on your own face needs a happy heart. To develop the true good self is more important than a good image, to chase your dreams and love but do so with a pure heart.

So, I think I should start now. At this instant. I have dreams to chase, I have love to find, but if I keep fill my mind with the ugly thoughts, how do I be true and just when I am chasing my dreams and finding my love? And how I get true and meaningful success and sincere love?

I will think of good things, I will speak only good words (although I do like to tease for joke sometimes, so I think I just have to keep my joke behind the line so it does no offence). I will be true to myself, then only by doing so I will be able to find true love and happiness in life.

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