There's one dialogue which I remember very well from a drama which I watched not long ago: "Whatever happen you must still smile and be happy, because life goes on no matter what and does not ends at that moment."
I think many people cries and weeps when they watch a touching scene in dramas which include all the emotion outbursts and wise words being spoken, but believe me, if we were to really learn all the good values portrayed then we are already people who holds success in their fist. People always feel down and sad about their fate and encounters in life. When your friends don't want to mix with you you feel like dying. When you face some problems in studies you feel like giving up. But don't the dramas we watch every day (for some) tell us that life goes on no matter what? That the happiness of your life is based on how you view and live your life, not what you encounter? That we are supposed to see everything in a positive way so that we will feel encouraged in everything?
Some people say, life is a competition, not a game. For me, a competition can be a game, depending on your perspective. If you take each thing as a challenge which you complete for fun and try again and again if you were to fail, then you find life less stressed. If you take everything as a competition which you are supposed to be winning, then you find your life like hell. Some people says if you don't take things seriously then you won't be able to achieve good results, but the thing is can't we take games seriously? The biggest difference between games and competitions is one is for fun which the other stresses on victory, but I do not think that we should stress on victory in whatever tasks we are trying to complete. Taking something as a game means that you feel fun in doing it while only concentrates on how to become better without thinking of being the best among other people, it's actually better than competition because the real opponent in our life is always ourselves, not others. The ones who become the best are actually people who thinks of how to improve themselves everyday, not winning their opponents. It's just like two chess players, one always think of how to play better in chess while the other how to win his opponent, who do you think will be better in chess?
Life is a game which do not end unless you die, and if your are not dead you can still win this game. Winning our life's game is not becoming the best, but feeling happy. You can be at the peak of the world, but you can still feel lonely. So how do you become happy? The answer is, by thinking positively and want to be happy yourself! Some people lost everything, but they still feel happy. If you ask them why, they might tell you: "I have just lost everything, but it would be worse still if I were to lose my happiness and hope too" Life is about living, and living is about being happy! There can be no reason, yet if you want to switch you mood to happy, you will be able to do it. The same thing may make one person sad but the other happy clearly showing us that it's our mind that decide what kind of life we want to live!
It's true that we may be lost sometimes in life, and it's true that sometimes we feel disappointed. But whenever we are ready to live on and game on, hope will never leave us! When hope never leaves you, then so do happiness. So whatever happens, remember:
Live on! Game on!
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